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EFT with 11 Year Old Pupils
Background Alan Turton is Hypnotherapist, an NLP Master, a Life Coach and an EFT Practitioner. Alan runs his own company called Positive Action Works Social Enterprise CIC. Alan has also worked for several years as a supply teacher, mainly in secondary schools. I have become an avid advocate of the power of Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT or Tapping) through working with Alan for 15 months dealing with a number of personal issues. After reading about the work done in Canadian schools we were keen to work with local teachers and pupils and thought a starting point would be Year 6 (11 year old pupils) facing their final assessment tests before leaving primary school. I approached a school in one of the most deprived wards of the city where the headteacher and all teachers are innovative and always looking for ways to improve their pupils' well being. They were very interested and keen to try it out. The first session was on the Friday before the week of the National standardized assessment tests (SATs). Prior to working with the children we met with the class Teacher and discussed what issues she thought they might have. As well as the expected anxieties of taking tests 35% of the pupils have special educational needs.
Alan wrote 5 things on the flip chart:- The children were asked to think about the 5 things. They were then told to tell the truth about 4 questions and to tell a lie about the other one, while holding out an arm which Alan pressed on gently. The pressed arm held strong on the truthful statements but went weaker on the untruth. 8 children did this with Alan and the others had great fun saying which statement was untrue. Then, working in pairs, they tried it out with each other. Then Alan asked them to think about their upcoming SATs and on a scale of 0 - 10 where 0 is no anxiety to 10 which is the most extreme anxiety, to all say how they felt. The results were as follows: Scale (Anxiety levels) 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 The majority of children therefore had anxiety levels of between 5 and 7. Tapping (EFT) Numbers of children Anxiety level difference We continued tapping. "Even though I might get the answer wrong, I'm still a cool kid"
Checking the scale of anxiety now, 21 children reported they were down to 0 or minus 0. "Even though I might get a lower level, I'm still a cool kid" I was amazed that all but 2 children had readily taken part. One had rested his head in his hands throughout the session and another had watched but not willingly participated. At one point I went to him and suggested he tapped "Even though that bad thing happened to me, I'm still a cool kid" We finished by telling the children that if they felt worried over the weekend to tap the first affirmation, "Even though I'm worried" etc. One child was so enthused that before she left the classroom she wrote down "I hope I do good in my SATs, I know I'll do good in my SATs, I will do good in my SATs" and said she was going to tap on that at home.
2nd Classroom Session I introduced the 'hip and shoulder flexibility' exercise and asked the teacher to try it first. She stood in front of me, both of us side on to the children so they could see, and asked her to hold one arm out in front of her and then turn as far round as she could towards me. The children were able to see which side of my body her arm touched. She did this a second time to totally warm up and then I introduced the tapping affirmation. I asked all the children to tap with her, explaining that the energy from their tapping would help her go further. "Even though I have restricted flexibility, I am still a great teacher". The teacher repeated the exercise and got much further. The children were amazed and we decided to try and get her further still. "Even though I still have some restricted flexibility, I'm still a great teacher". The next time she got even further. I had noticed that all the children were tapping including the two who had not taken part in the previous session. The children then paired up to do the exercise. Some children were so flexible that I thought they could not get any further after tapping. But they did and I heard cries of 'Wow', 'I don't believe it' and 'look how far I got' all around the room. They chose as their affirmation, "Even though I have restricted movement, I'm still a cool kid" and "Even though I still have some restricted movement" etc. When I arrived at the school at lunchtime, I had seen a few children from this class upset in the playground following a name calling incident. I decided to work on this. I asked the children if anyone had ever been called names and how they felt. A number of children volunteered information and one child stated that he had been called names but it hadn't happened at school. This gave me an opportunity to reinforce that tapping can help situations that occur anywhere. I reminded the children of the tapping points as on the flexibility exercise I had noticed that some were getting careless about where they positioned their tapping finger(s). I then asked all the children to tap reminding them that if the issue didn't apply to them their tapping would help those it did apply to. "Even though that person said something nasty about me, I'm still a cool kid" Afterwards they said that had really helped but one child volunteered 'I feel awful now because I called someone names'. We tapped: Then I asked the children if the tapping session had helped them with their tests. One child yelled out 'OF COURSE IT DID' as though it was obvious. The great majority said it had helped and I asked if any children wanted to share their views with me in private. Quite a number of children chose to do this.
Children's Comments
Children's Own Tappings The children had done their tapping in their bedrooms but one child had done it on the bus going home. This was the child who had not participated in the 1st session until the final tapping. He told me that he had tapped "Even though I got the answers wrong, I'm still a cool kid." I asked if he didn't mind doing it on the bus in front of other people. He said 'no' and when his mum asked what he was doing he told her that he was tapping, it's really great, and it works. Two of the children had tapped on issues unrelated to SATs. One had sat quietly in her bedroom thinking about her uncle fighting with the army in Iraq. She hadn't said anything but as she tapped she was thinking about him and hoping he was safe. The next day he had spoken to her on Facebook. The granddad of another had died 7 months ago. She had tapped:
Conclusion In the meantime the Reception (5 year olds) teacher has asked us to work with her pupils having heard such good reports from the Y6 class teacher. Margaret Loudon & Alan Turton (Merseyside, England) All material provided on the SchoolMadeMuchEasier.com web site is provided for informational or educational purposes only. Consult a physician regarding the applicability of any opinions or recommendations with respect to your symptoms or medical condition. |